And don't demand perfection in the other. Be human! Don't ask for inhuman perfections." " And real people are real people! Nobody is here to fulfil your fantasies. Drop your fantasies and you will see the world is full of beautiful people. If you want to be accepted, first accept yourself, And then accept somebody's love. Fulfil these conditions-and you will be accepted. And don't ask for the impossible. Be a little more positive, and you will find something beautiful even in the meanest person. Be negative, and you will find something ugly even in the most beautiful person. If you want to live in a world of ugly people, be negative, and you will make the whole world ugly. It is your mind that will create ugliness all around, because you will be looking only for the ugly, only for the negative, only for the wrong. This is what hell is. The negative mind creates hell, the positive mind creates heaven: it all depends on you. You are the creator of your life. It can have tremendous meaning, beauty, joy: but you will have to create it in your heart, and you will have to spread it all over the place. You will have to create something in yourself, only then will you find it in existence. Existence echoes you.
OSHO
Philosophia Perennis.